A way to a man's heart is through his stomach...

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What about forcefeeding him when he's not hungry?

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Treat em like he's your baby. Which he is anyway.

Throw the tomatoes slow so I could catch them and ask someone to make nice ketchup out of em

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It also depends where he is feeling hungry.

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It’s not hard to please men. Do everything for him thinking he’s 5 years old. He’ll be in heaven.

:chai:

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^what she said. Tie their shoelaces and everything.

So true!! Brilliantly said! Waise, I guess I’m lucky that I won hubby’s heart & tummy by cooking BETTER than his mom!!! Hahahaahaha!! No joke, she seriously is culinary challenged :rolleyes:

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Nah, that's if you are aiming to hurt him through his stomach....you're aiming a bit high.

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ROTFL. i was thinking the same.

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It seems like the men are saying no.

And the women are saying yes.

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Maybe because they don't want to admit there is more to them than aiming a little lower :p

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This word 'aiming' is worrisome..

Better word, is 'attention', or 'attending to'.

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This particular man sigh gives it a yes.

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and what about those who don't find their spouse attractive? and those who don't have much of chemistry (assuming an arranged setup)?

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And you seriously think that even then ...being a good cook...is enough to sustain the marriage? What about times when your spouse is NOT eating? What will one rely upon then to make the marriage work?

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No i mean it seriously. What happens to those couples? Only cooking wouldn't get them anywhere so its not really that a way to man's heart is via the stomach. Its more to do with how attractive they find they wife, hanna?

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Goes both ways, Daf. It’s common sense that it requires MORE than just being a good cook to make a marriage work…you’re not gonna be eating all the time. Life is not all about food. If only it were that simple. :hehe:

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Of course there is more to it then just that. Basic for men is finding their spouse physically attractive enough. All the other points come in later...

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You think that attractiveness is enough for men? What if she has a horrible personality or if there's not emotional/cerebral connection? And is attractiveness not important for women? Attraction/compatiblity are complicated. It's not just one thing that makes a relationship work.

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Couples that are not phyiscally attracted to each other must find something else to build their relationship around. Men have phyiscal attractiveness as an element among other things. Is it paramount for marriage? Nope. Is it necessary to attract the guy? Yes.

Life and marriage built on a foundation of many elements just like a house. You have foundation stones, concrete, pillars etc. You need it all to make it work.

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Yup - Need a lot to make it work .. compatibility, chemistry, trust, respect, love, empathy, care, understanding & lots of other things.

There was a time when these words were just words that I kept hearing on & off but they truly mean something when it comes to marriage. There is no one such formula that works, its a combination of a lot many!