Re: A traditional-minded woman ?
It is not insecurity, it is a general sense of fed-upness. In a world where women were once forced to be "traditional minded" or even Plain Dum, throug their accidents of birth, it is now demed of bad taste to choose a lifestyle or mind set that so many poeple fought to change - merely because you are messed up or even to try and nab a guy who everyone has decided isnt so great anyway. Nome saying sk?. Plus there is the whole thing of "define" traditional. becasue TRADITOINALLY women were indeed illeducated and sat at home like dairy cows rearing unneeded children with little/no control over their rights of birth-giving.
All very complex