hmm.. see i am not talking about being in a bad relationship with your spouse.. my point is something else.. its EVEN.. when a wife is good.. still she is taken as a funny part in a man’s life among his friends.. and generally the boys are called BECHARAS when they get married.. i am just saying.. why is it like that? why a boy, who has a gf is considered more lucky than a boy who is married and they say.. his life is now ended!! why??