A question that popped up in my mind

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*Originally posted by Swera: *

I am not sure if I unserstand what you want to say here...:-\

Can you explain, plzz :o
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Oh. I guess I don't know what I meant.

I reread.

The part about:

When I say “Muslim brother”, this excludes the kaafir, for there is no gheebah in the case of a kaafir.

Well educate me. I have no idea what a gheebah is. So probobly I should have not said anything at all.

But as a whole I was thinking that backbiting is not desired trait for anyone. Be it your brother. My brother. Neighhbors brother. Or "any of the above" sister.

And in my thinking irregardless of what religion one follows...one doesn't backbite another period.

Kind of a golden rule.

Treat others as you wish to be treated.

Do towards others as you would wish they to do unto you.

So... IMHO. Don't bite ones backside unless one wants their backside bit....and not many do...unless they are really weird :)

In the case of a proposal it is a must 2 tell about the person coz poori life ka sawal hai not just 4 days. ITS A MUST and its not 4bidden ji.