As far as med school goes, I was worried about the same thing (being a girl…how guy’s didn’t want a doctor wife becuase she’d be busy and stuff…and ahving to wait a LONG time to actually start your married life, have kids, etc), but I did my research and the field of medicine is becoming INCREASINGLY compatible with family life. As far as rishtas go, being a doctor generally doesn’t pose as a PROBLEM when proposing to a family…I’ve only seen it be considered a plus. And on top of that, jab shaadi ka time aaye ga, then shaadi ho jayi gi. I’ve seen people plan out their entire lives and then suddenly a week later decide that they’re getting married. If you REALY want to go to med school, then do it. I can assure you you’re not alone; there are plenty of married/engaged/committed people in the same boat as you.