Jazz89
September 19, 2010, 6:24pm
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Simple, sincere, fun loving and intelligent than me.
BTW, whats with girls liking tall guys? I've repeatedly heard that.
I like taller guys than I am, because at least for me tall guy
1) Makes u feel small, and if guy is shorter then u feel big, and who girl wants to feel big : D
2) Tall guys look and feel more manly to me
3) Taller guys makes u feel safe
and hmm what else I just like that guy is taller : D
Khumar
September 19, 2010, 6:33pm
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tall
dark (hair)
handsome
rich
money
car for me
a kitty
rich
$$$$
$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$
Re: 10 most important things, what are u looking for ur dream husband or wife : )
Hmmmm … interesting! I know some ways to exploit those feelings!
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Exactly!
samb
September 20, 2010, 1:53am
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Gina:
oye. that’s not nice. I’m not bald.
the rest of the pic I can’t disagree with.
el_topo
September 21, 2010, 8:05am
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Oy vey, there are so many of these list threads I forget which one I was supposed to be replying to.
Edal, may I take this opportunity to say wow, I mean, you are awesome dude. The thing you said in the other thread, about your wife not even being experienced on facebook and the like. That is so very important, because now you can be certain that she didn't get up to any cybersl*ttery. You are a deep thinker. I want to hear more from you.
Reha
September 21, 2010, 3:46pm
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EDAL:
Well after my first 8 month disaster, I was looking for something really good.
Nice pious parents who have taught their kids about the deen
Girl has gotta be a virgin, no boyfriends, no past, and should abhor that kind of behavior.Should shudder at the idea of sexual immorality, should be so shy and bashful that her cheeks turn red at the mention of sex.
wear hijab
pray 5 times
basically know about her religion and rights of husband. How a husband should be most important thing for her after Allah SWT and teachings of prophet PBUH.
Educated, not saying she should be a PHD in engineering or something. As I believe man should provide all the comforts for his wife. What I mean is if you are college educated you will get totally bored if your wife is jahil. You should be able to have an intelligent conversation with her, like about globalization, Nafta, Nato, philosophy etc… She will be at home with the kids, should know how to help them out with their algebra homework.
7), Personally for me, I don’t like that skinny stick model look. Girl should have some meat in her chest area, and on butt, curves!! please know this does not mean fat or chubby, two totally diff things!!! Meat in chest, not on stomach.
Nice long healthy hair, ahhh nothing like burying your face in a mountain of curls.
Pretty, very very subjective yes. For me, not too dark, small nose, healthy lips/skin.
Decent height. 5’5 or above, but not more than 5’9.
EDAL, what college did you graduate from? A fine institution it must be…churning out such bright and progressive individuals like yourself.
My list:
-Respectful
-Honest
-Family oriented
-Ambitious
-I should be attracted to him - he doesnt have to be hot - just attractive to me
I dont know if Im even looking for all ten things here…those are the things I feel matter to me.
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EDAL:
Well after my first 8 month disaster, I was looking for something really good.
Nice pious parents who have taught their kids about the deen
Girl has gotta be a virgin, no boyfriends, no past, and should abhor that kind of behavior.Should shudder at the idea of sexual immorality, should be so shy and bashful that her cheeks turn red at the mention of sex.
wear hijab
pray 5 times
basically know about her religion and rights of husband. How a husband should be most important thing for her after Allah SWT and teachings of prophet PBUH.
Educated, not saying she should be a PHD in engineering or something. As I believe man should provide all the comforts for his wife. What I mean is if you are college educated you will get totally bored if your wife is jahil. You should be able to have an intelligent conversation with her, like about globalization, Nafta, Nato, philosophy etc… She will be at home with the kids, should know how to help them out with their algebra homework.
7), Personally for me, I don’t like that skinny stick model look. Girl should have some meat in her chest area, and on butt, curves!! please know this does not mean fat or chubby, two totally diff things!!! Meat in chest, not on stomach.
Nice long healthy hair, ahhh nothing like burying your face in a mountain of curls.
Pretty, very very subjective yes. For me, not too dark, small nose, healthy lips/skin.
Decent height. 5’5 or above, but not more than 5’9.
Wow very precise n to the point …
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Values, goals, and morals which I could live with, and " has to have stamina" ;). I would prefer a nice healthy relationship with hubby.
@ Edal… :hinna: go hangout in the Religious threads…I mean you should totally blush at the mention of sex since you expect your wife to and sorry that topic comes up often here in Life1.
So lights off for you two I presume???
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EDAI is quite famouse in L&R secitonnn these daysss... ;)
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^ hai na! :) too bad we can't just hit him with a chapal....
T1000
September 22, 2010, 6:56am
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she must respect me and my family
she must give me the importance that i want as huby
she must be educated
she must be bold and confident
a chatter box
with awesome sense of humor
should not be from my field of job
tall - min 5.5"
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^ hai na! :) too bad we can't just hit him with a chapal....
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bcoz udont hav any reason to hit him .. he is logical n caring too still u wana hit himmmm...:(
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^ ;) I like your list, I fit all except sadly I'm not 5.5" ....guess you can keep looking :)
T1000
September 22, 2010, 7:05am
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and your job field is .. ?
^ ;) I like your list, I fit all except sadly I'm not 5.5" ....guess you can keep looking :)
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bcoz udont hav any reason to hit him .. he is logical n caring too still u wana hit himmmm...:(
sorry baas, I like to have my little banter here and there.... :)
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and your job field is .. ?
what's yours? ;)
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lol ... but its a serious thread , u hav to b serious , do u hav som1 in ur life ...or still walieeyyy :p
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lol ... but its a serious thread , u hav to b serious , do u hav som1 in ur life ...or still walieeyyy :p
I suppose... maybe cafe hangout would be better suited for my banter? idk :)