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  • redvelvet
    replied to getting married
    Not necessarily. Even people who had arranged marriages did have an inner desire to have someone to share their life with, to have kids with, etc. I don't think we can make a blanket statement about those who have had an arranged marriage. Maybe individuals who have gone this route are less discriminating...
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  • redvelvet
    replied to How much dating
    Yes, there are blog entries of certain members who have shared that they are dating (or getting to know) people for marriage purposes.....either one at a time ....or a few at a time. Those members are not sleeping around with the potentials. At least that's the impression I have gathered from from their...
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  • redvelvet
    commented on What do I do?
    Also, don't feel self-conscious about this blog entry. It's a good thing that you asked because it's a common issue and Alhumdolillah most everyone here is helpful; nobody will mock or think badly of it. I hope things improve soon, inshaAllah.
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  • redvelvet
    commented on Henry
    It seems like Henry is interested in you. Personally, I feel that dating (or becoming too close) with someone of the opposite gender at work comes with its risks....even if the person is in another department. I usually don't encourage it. I also feel that generally (with a few exceptions) men and...
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  • redvelvet
    commented on What do I do?
    You did notice a difference from eating more greens and consuming more water so that is good. Keep that up because nutritional changes take time to produce an effect. Also, see the doctor because maybe there is a deficiency or imbalance of some sort that can be corrected. And avoid harsh styling products....
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  • I am in awe of people who have a good command of watercolors. It's a very unforgiving paint medium to work with because it dries quickly and so you don't have much room for mistakes or do-overs.
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  • redvelvet
    commented on Six Days
    You'll never know why he disappeared on you. And even if he were to tell you, it may or may not be the truth. Whatever his reasons....you're right in moving on. Hope you find your match, soon inshaAllah.
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  • redvelvet
    replied to Can't forget a "Crush"
    I think the girl might have overestimated her readiness for marriage. I also don't understand why she told you that she can't stop thinking of her crush. Maybe this confession was her (conscious or subconscious) way of placing a block/distance between you two because she's not ready to accept that...
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  • Yep, that name is like an abshaghun for this forum. It's like we need to aarti utaaro of GS anytime a member of that moniker registers.
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  • Look at the OP's gung-ho pride in the spread of Islam when he cannot even adopt the speech of a Muslim nor the type of attitude a Muslim guy should have toward all women irrespective of their creed.

    It's darkly funny that both of the Bobbys that GS has seen have been on opposing but extreme...
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  • I'm afraid I don't agree with your belief that we did not show you any sympathy at all. You provided us with a very vague description of your dilemma and still several of us asked you questions in an effort to better understand your situation and help you.

    Yes, there are a couple of posts...
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  • [QUOTE=third string;n16637006]Cashmere looks like cardi b

    Bwahahaha. Cash is religious and conservative, too. She's gonna straighten you out for sure now. Pehaly se kum dushman hain tumharay?
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  • The grammar of the article is atrocious!

    Yasmina dropped Islam to become a porn-star and the writer dropped out of grade school to pursue his literary ambitions. :/

    Stay in school, kids. Stay in school!!!
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  • I hadn't thought of that, it makes sense. Although it does kinda feel bleurghy to know that members of the opposite gender of have given so much thought to your physique.
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  • Also...I forgot...walaikum as salam....
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  • Jazak Allah for sharing ...
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  • @third string

    It's usually evident from the tone in your posts that you're just joking around/baiting/trying to get a rise. So we give it right back to you, lol.
    In this case, it's pretty clear that OP is in emotionally sensitive situation.
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  • redvelvet
    replied to nature
    You've asked yet another thought-provoking question, Life01. It's one that I've often wondered about myself. I'm going to attempt to wrap my head around it so here are my two cents:

    Within our nature, Allah has embedded the potential for certain vices (greed, jealousy, pride, etc.) And...
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  • redvelvet
    replied to What guppies look like
    How does one determine the physical girth (slimness, medium-ness, fatness) of a member based on their texts unless they mentioned relevant details (eating habits, diet, workout routine or lack thereof)? :/
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  • redvelvet
    commented on The Disappointment
    Texting allows a person time to edit their thoughts. So, sometimes the individual may be different in person.

    I wouldn't have met him so late, Munni. When your gut feeling tells you that a guy is giving you the run-around, slow down and protect yourself; take care of **you**......even if...
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    Last edited by redvelvet; 1 week ago.
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