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    So my husband tells me and I honestly believe him that I am his 2nd love

    His first love is football and the dude dreams, breathes, eats, thinks and prays football.. His day revolves around when he can go play football and spends his exercise time with football related exercises

    Should I be annoyed or grateful of his 1st love ?

    I do get a tad jealous of a "football" as he is earnestly tells me how football came into his life before I ever did and will be no. 1 until kids..then his love of football will be transferred to his sons and daughters

    Anyone else a 2nd love?
    yeah but no but yeah but...

  • #2
    Re: You are your husbands 2nd love

    change your last name to Messi. He will love you like never before...
    Goyan keshk aqbat taskeen ast...Awal shor ast aqbat namkeen ast
    Har chanz aasiyat sang zeerey...Ee surat-e-beqrar barbin ast

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    • #3
      Re: You are your husbands 2nd love

      Start dressing like a football and smelling like a football. Start expressing your love for football to him. Say how you have a crush on a certain footballer... sit back and watch how fast he ditches his love for football.
      Sometimes quiet is violent...

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      • #4
        Re: You are your husbands 2nd love

        Find a new love. A passion and obsession of your own. Of course, obsession is not balanced, is not healthy. Hmmn. Bad advice. Ok, how about you put a football on your side of the bed and sleep on the sofa for a while. See if he notices. If he doesn't then it's time for talaaq, on the basis of zina

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        • #5
          Re: You are your husbands 2nd love

          Originally posted by Theorist View Post
          Start dressing like a football and smelling like a football. Start expressing your love for football to him. Say how you have a crush on a certain footballer... sit back and watch how fast he ditches his love for football.

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          • #6
            Re: You are your husbands 2nd love

            you should just be thankful his first love is not another woman or porn.

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            • #7
              Re: You are your husbands 2nd love

              I wish it was that easy.. he'd want me to change it ronaldhinio.. now that is taking the biscuit..

              Originally posted by Decent 6Chora View Post
              change your last name to Messi. He will love you like never before...
              yeah but no but yeah but...

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              • #8
                Re: You are your husbands 2nd love

                Originally posted by aurchaepiyo View Post
                Find a new love. A passion and obsession of your own. Of course, obsession is not balanced, is not healthy. Hmmn. Bad advice. Ok, how about you put a football on your side of the bed and sleep on the sofa for a while. See if he notices. If he doesn't then it's time for talaaq, on the basis of zina
                yeah but no but yeah but...

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                • #9
                  Re: You are your husbands 2nd love

                  icile.. exactly which is why I should shut up and put up

                  I am trying to find a 1st love and have told him that one we have a child.. he or she will take the 1st love and he'll know how it feels to be no 1.. but I am just joking.. I think he will be always be no 1 even if it is joint first ..
                  yeah but no but yeah but...

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                  • #10
                    Re: You are your husbands 2nd love

                    I believe a guy's first love is always his mother and i have made peace with it even though i am not married yet . And to be honest, i respect that alot because i believe the bond you share with your parents is very special and there is no reason to feel jealous for it.
                    Don't tell God that you have a big problem, tell your problem that you have a big God :)

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                    • #11
                      Re: You are your husbands 2nd love

                      you should be grateful that his 1st love is not some other woman/girl
                      Are you planning on shampooing these dirty koalas?

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                      • #12
                        Re: You are your husbands 2nd love

                        love for mother is completely different that love for wife

                        thats why you can love both and still survive

                        Originally posted by ZareenKhan View Post
                        I believe a guy's first love is always his mother and i have made peace with it even though i am not married yet . And to be honest, i respect that alot because i believe the bond you share with your parents is very special and there is no reason to feel jealous for it.
                        Are you planning on shampooing these dirty koalas?

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                        • #13
                          Re: You are your husbands 2nd love

                          Be grateful!!!

                          I think its awesome when guys are into something that passionately...a hobby, sports, whatever!
                          Set your life on fire. Seek those who fan your flames. ~ Rumi

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                          • #14
                            Re: You are your husbands 2nd love

                            Mothers love can't even be given a position, I love the relationship he has with his mother, respectful, tactile, fun loving and I don't ever feel intimidated by his relationship. If anything it gives me confidence on how he expects me and him to bring up our kids when the time comes..
                            yeah but no but yeah but...

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                            • #15
                              Re: You are your husbands 2nd love

                              I think he is sad. I can understand that you can be passionate about a sport or a hobby but to say that your wife comes 2nd to the hobby in terms of love is sad.
                              The ineluctable truth emerges: The journey is more important than the destination. The real fun was the struggle.

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