So I have finally decided to get married now. I think I have come to a stage in my life I no longer enjoy being single. I have despised marriage for a long time for all sorts of reasons, valid and stupid. I have had my fair share of relationships but none progressed to marriage, and I have to admit most of the times it was me who messed up big time.

So I need some encouragement from folks to keep me on track and focused, I am still trying to overcome my fears of longterm commitments and marriage.