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      Quote Originally Posted by aqua70 View Post
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      Well congratulations lol.

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      Quote Originally Posted by third string View Post
      Well congratulations lol.
      Just never mind, can't fix stereotypes.
      Anything worth doing is worth doing well.

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      Quote Originally Posted by aqua70 View Post
      Just never mind, can't fix stereotypes.
      Okay maybe you're right, i just find it attractive lol.

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      Quote Originally Posted by third string View Post
      Okay maybe you're right, i just find it attractive lol.
      There you go, the truth! Thanks for finally admitting it. Lol
      Anything worth doing is worth doing well.

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      I don't understand the choker thing...
      “our backs tell stories no books have the spine to carry” - Rupi Kaur

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      Quote Originally Posted by FreshBakedPi View Post
      I don't understand the choker thing...
      It's really stupid, some guys have this false idea that if a girl wears a choker, she is very adventurous intimately.
      Anything worth doing is worth doing well.

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      “Sometimes the questions are complicated and the answers are simple.”

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      Quote Originally Posted by aqua70 View Post
      It's really stupid, some guys have this false idea that if a girl wears a choker, she is very adventurous intimately.
      Oh you crazy kids lol... it just means she has an affinity for bad 90's fashion third string

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      that Christina Aguilera picture is the stuff of nightmares!!
      “our backs tell stories no books have the spine to carry” - Rupi Kaur

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      Quote Originally Posted by FreshBakedPi View Post
      that Christina Aguilera picture is the stuff of nightmares!!
      LOOOL. Those eyebrows tho.....
      “Sometimes the questions are complicated and the answers are simple.”

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      Quote Originally Posted by FreshBakedPi View Post
      Oh you crazy kids lol... it just means she has an affinity for bad 90's fashion third string

      Lol the 90s must be back then

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      I am not married yet but....
      Doing the deed



      Wo tujh ko bhooley hain tou tujh pe bhi lazim hai Meer
      Khaak daal, aag lga, Naam naa le, yaad naa ker!!!

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      Quote Originally Posted by akaprincess View Post
      Married people -
      How important is doing the deed (intimacy) and related acts to you? How does it effect your relationship?

      If there is a lack of, would you leave your husband/wife, considering everything else is going fine in life with that person?
      I'd recommend reading stuff on the reddit sub DeadBedrooms.

      I'm not married so can't really say much about the topic. However, I'll try to give my two cents anyway.

      Most of us humans are sexual beings. And we want to be wanted sexually. Love and caring without sex is just friendship, not a romantic relationship.

      What would I do if I were stuck in a situation like this? Talk it out. Try to fix the situation, find out what I'm doing wrong, communicate my dissatisfaction. At the end of all the talking, we'll know if the relationship is salvageable or not.

      Possible Outcome 1: We talk it out and we fix things. It won't be a short talk. Things probably didn't go wry in a day or two so they won't get fixed in a day or two. However, it is important that both you and your partner realized that this is a problem. You can't really fix a problem without acknowledging its existence.

      Possible Outcome 2: We talk it out and we figure out she doesn't want me anymore or just isn't interested in sex. At this point we've have encountered an insurmountable incompatibility. We realize separating and opening ourselves to other possibilities is the best possible option. Things can get complicated if kids are involved.

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      Yes, I agree with you .. love and care (sort of) without sexual relations is just friendship..
      but also - to sum your whole married life on that, and leave if it doesnt get better .., that’s a problem too isnt it ?

      What happens when you have talked about it, and still not much changes ? And when you do, you just dont feel like it, or, it doesnt ummm feel good and whatnot .. then what?

      And if you move on, what’s the guarantee thr next one won’t be the same way? Unless you do a test trial

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      She gotta keep up with me, that's all i ask for.

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      Quote Originally Posted by akaprincess View Post
      Yes, I agree with you .. love and care (sort of) without sexual relations is just friendship..
      but also - to sum your whole married life on that, and leave if it doesnt get better .., that’s a problem too isnt it ?

      What happens when you have talked about it, and still not much changes ? And when you do, you just dont feel like it, or, it doesnt ummm feel good and whatnot .. then what?

      And if you move on, what’s the guarantee thr next one won’t be the same way? Unless you do a test trial
      You're not summing up your married life as sex but as a wife, you do have the right to enjoy intimacy with your husband. If you're the type that can live without it, fine. No problem. But many cannot and there is nothing wrong with a woman wanting to leave a sex-less marriage.

      In the scenario that you don't enjoy being intimate with your husband, you can go to couples therapy. Its something you can discuss with your PCP as well...they will have suggestions for you as to what to try.

      As for guarantees for the next marriage...there are no guarantees for anything. Not a thing. People who leave don't do it because they're looking for something else...they leave because their current situation is unbearable.
      Set your life on fire. Seek those who fan your flames. ~ Rumi


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