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Mr. Two Wives

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I spoke to Mr. Two Wives again. He has not mentioned our previous discussion where he said he is no longer interested.

I've noticed a change in behavior with him. He is being different. The word I can use that really defines his change in behavior is caring. He is being caring or showing more care than he ever has since I have known him, apart from the very beginning when I first met him years ago. It's simply bizarre to experience this transformation because I used to view him a certain way and now I am not seeing that side of him or that behavior from him rather. It's as if he decided to make a serious change because I thought his previous behavior was simply something he could not control and was an ingrained behavior or way of being. This different behavior is making me second-guess that. I did not think he can make such a change so automatically. It's as if he flipped a switch and decided not to behave a certain way for the most part. It has me intrigued essentially. That is really what it boils down to. It's almost like, who is this person?

I know that people can decide to make a change in their life or attitude but I guess it has me wondering if this is a temporary change, if its some sort of temporary experiment (I know that sounds terrible but I am being honest in my thought process), if he is even aware of his different behavior or what? If I asked him tomorrow hey how come the change in attitude recently, he might ask me what I am talking about because he does not feel he is being any different than he normally is. Gahhhh. I think I am going to observe. I'm intrigued. The psychology of it all is what interests me more than anything else probably. What is the motivation for the change? I can be suspicious at times, which may or may not be the best thing. I dont think it will be continuous but its certainly interesting to experience.

As for the last discussion we had on the topic of marriage, I am not touching that right now. No need for me to say anything and he hasnt said anything since, regarding the matter. All I am doing now is interacting occassionally and being the person I was and focusing on myself for the most part.

My diet has been a disaster this week. I wont be posting about it Monday. Perhaps the following Monday I will have better news regarding that. *smack*
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  1. redvelvet's Avatar
    Anything out of the ordinary will cause one to be intrigued. But the more ingrained and lasting changes in a person take time. Those abrupt switch-like changes usually don't last. Guys tend to be more decisive. So, if he told you (last time) that he didn't think you both would be compatible for each other...then don't expect anything from him. Protect yourself by moving on.
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  2. Eastern Dresses's Avatar
    Agree with RV here. The title of the blog is enough for me to suggest that you shouldn't be wasting your time on this guy in any capacity, even as a friend.
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  3. FreshBakedPi's Avatar
    This sounds like game playing to me Munni. And even if it isn't the fact that he has established a pattern of behaviour that is wishy washy is not a good sign. You don't need this in your life. NEXT!
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  4. Holy Lota's Avatar
    Hae Munni ji. Kaheen aapke "wo" malakand men to nahi rehte?

    Then its his "majboori" na




    #Dontgotojail #Shadimubarak
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  5. redvelvet's Avatar
    Agree with FBP. The thought of him playing games to get your attention occurred to me as well. Allah knows best what his intentions are, but the fact remains that he doesn't think you both are a good fit for each other. So, take his word ..and keep a polite distance.
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  6. NavAhmed's Avatar
    Where is Mr NYC? Is he out of the picture?
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  7. LP's Avatar
    Quote Originally Posted by NavAhmed
    Where is Mr NYC? Is he out of the picture?
    where were you!??
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  8. NavAhmed's Avatar
    Quote Originally Posted by LP
    where were you!??
    I'm sorry, did I miss something?
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  9. Hoverer's Avatar
    Munni, donít do it, donít get reeled in! Totally agree with what the girls have said.

    Also, donít worry about the diet! Tomorrowís another day! Youíve got this
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