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I called him yesterday after work and to my amazement he actually picked up the phone. I was going to leave a simple voice message. He told me he has a court date on Thursday because he got caught not wearing his seatbelt. He is one of those. Ughhh. Does not like to wear seatbelts and when I told him thats not safe his response is always the same, "I will go when its my time." I told him that its not very nice that I just met him recently and he is already mentioning about leaving this world. Gahhhhh. He apologized. *smack* Bhaya's friend is a doctor here and he is the same, I remember riding in his car and praying for my life because he'd zip through traffic, texting on his phone, going fast and not wear his seatbelt. I told him it is unsafe and he can get a ticket and he brushed it off. I really dont understand this thinking. Not to say that wearing one means guaranteed safety but still. Wear your seatbelts!!! Grrrr.

I changed the topic and asked him about showing photos. I said, "Is it alright at some point if I showed your photo to my girlfriends?" Fact is I have already shown it to one of them. I told him one of my friends wanted to see him. He said he didnt understand why girls like showing a guys pic to their friends. He almost said it in a way that he felt like the girl is trying to show him off. Now, I can sort of undetstand his thinking because I have met guys that I felt wanted to do that with me, not necessarily from photos but moreso in-person. It's a huge turn-off to me. I told him that if I showed his photo it wasnt to show him off or anything of the sort, its simply to introduce him to my close circle. He told me he doesnt want to deal with girls making comments about him or seeing him in public and saying how he is so-and-so's guy. He said that when they meet him in person they can see him. Hmm. I guess. I started wondering if he has some sort of hidden life that he doesnt want to be seen. It's too early for me to be showing his photo but this question was asked mainly in anticipation of the future if things go well. I asked him if that means he doesnt want me to be seen by his friends, he said he did not say that. We spoke for about another minute then he said he had to go cause he was about to drive. Mhmm, quick thinking buddy, quick thinking. I know some people abhor the idea of their significant other showing their photos to their friends while others dont mind it. I'm someone who doesnt tend to like her own photos a lot of the time so I dont think I'd like it either unless I was okay with that photo and it was a very close friend. I told him I showed his photo to one of my girlfriends and he was like, so why are you asking me now and not before you showed it to her? *giggle* Oopsie.

As far as being exclusive goes. I have decided to be exclusive with him for now. I dont know what is going to happen but I'd like to focus on him because I do like him so far overall. *blush*
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  1. third string's Avatar
    Why is it a bad thing tho lol.
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  2. FreshBakedPi's Avatar
    I suppose I could understand his reservations if you were posting his picture on a public blog such as this one but just showing it to a few trusted friends shouldn't be a big deal.
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  3. dewdropcollection's Avatar
    Agree with FBP. There could be something going on.
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  4. Munni's Avatar
    I have had guys tell me this in the past so its not something new or unexpected. It just makes me wonder each time what that particular persons reasoning is.
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