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Today I was thinking about it. Some people feel I should not be exclusive with him just yet. I think most people feel this way. A few feel that I should be exclusive with him and see how it goes before talking to anyone else.

On the one hand I sometimes think maybe I should talk to others and not put all my eggs in one basket. On the other hand I feel like it will be wrong to do that considering how he said he feels about me.

Ughhhh, its a strange position to be in.

My mom says I should talk exclusively to him because she said she knows what I am like and I will get confused because I will note different qualities in different guys and then I might get stuck. One of my siblings feels I should talk to other guys until I am more certain how serious this one is, as he hasnt really expressed any type of serious talk yet. I mean he has called me his future wife in the past but I barely knew him then so I took it as a joke.

Aghhhhhhh I dont know what to dooooooo. I was thinking what if I go back on the dating site and he sees me but then its like well what were you doing on here too mista!!! *giggle*

On the other hand, the other day I asked him, are you my man? I was curious about his thought process so I asked. He said, "Yes, I am your man." *blush*

So soon though? Gahhhh. I'm cwazy.
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  1. third string's Avatar
    I don't understand non exclusive dating, it's like cheating imo.
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  2. LP's Avatar
    Ask him if he's exclusive or not.
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  3. LP's Avatar
    Quote Originally Posted by third string
    I don't understand non exclusive dating, it's like cheating imo.
    More like an open relationship if both know the other is non exclusive.
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  4. Munni's Avatar
    Quote Originally Posted by third string
    I don't understand non exclusive dating, it's like cheating imo.
    That's exactly what I am questioning right now. Is it like cheating when you are dating but you are not at the point of engagement or something and when its been less than a month? Several people feel I should NOT be exclusive with him. They said its too soon.
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  5. Munni's Avatar
    Quote Originally Posted by LP
    Ask him if he's exclusive or not.
    About two weeks ago I suggested that he may be talking to other girls along with me. I mentioned other things too right after saying that. He didnt say anything in response to what I said. I have not asked him outright yet. I'm kind of afraid of what he will say. Gahhhh.
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  6. LP's Avatar
    Quote Originally Posted by Munni
    About two weeks ago I suggested that he may be talking to other girls along with me. I mentioned other things too right after saying that. He didnt say anything in response to what I said. I have not asked him outright yet. I'm kind of afraid of what he will say. Gahhhh.
    Ask him clearly. In fact, you can even tell him why you're asking.
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  7. NavAhmed's Avatar
    If you become exclusive, your ratings will go down, Bridget Jones!

    I was anticipating you might be getting ads on your blogs soon....
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  8. Illuminate's Avatar
    You should probably have an honest conversation with him. I feel honesty and putting the truth out there is important. Also, his actions will let you know if he's into being exclusive with you. You have every right to know where things are going every step of the way. This is your life.
    Good luck
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  9. Munni's Avatar
    Quote Originally Posted by NavAhmed
    If you become exclusive, your ratings will go down, Bridget Jones!

    I was anticipating you might be getting ads on your blogs soon....
    lol, I dont write for ratings! I simply like to share some things. Even if only two people read my blog, that is two people. *smile*
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  10. kurripunjaban's Avatar
    I think when you’re talking to someone you shouldn’t be talking to anyone else. Especially considering how (you have stated) you feel about him. What harm will not talking to anyone else for a few weeks really do? In that time you can gauge where you stand with him.
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