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I wrote an entry yesterday that I took down soon after. It was about my first day at work with the desi guy who hired me as an assistant. This entry is about the first and second day there.

Okay so I didnt know what exactly my duties were going to be till I got to the job location on my first day of work for him. When I arrived he complimented me and told me what my job duty was. My job was to tell him when to work on his next assignment. He gave me a timeline and whenever it was say 8pm, I had to tell him to work on the next item. Yes, my job was that simple that even I was surprised at it. He told me if I was not there he'd be watching a movie instead of doing work. He told me I was free to watch a movie, eat food, walk around and do whatever I wanted until I had to tell him when he had to do the next task. I did find it very peculiar because the pay was good for something so incredibly easy. He complimented me a few more times within those three hours of work and also joked about us getting married. He seemed the nerdy type so I was on guard but I didnt feel terribly threatened. He finished his work and then paid me and I left. The next day I had a headache so I told him I am not going into work. He asked me to come in anyway and said he had medicine available but I stuck to what I said and did not go in.

Today was my second day of work and while I was on my way there he had messaged me that he is going to be late. When I got to the location he informed me that he will be there in the next two hours. Now, this is an evening position and I didnt really want to wait but since my drive was so long I decided to have dinner and wait. He then sends me another message asking me if I wanted to see a movie when he got there. I was so perplexed that I didnt respond to it. Getting paid to see a movie??? Didnt make sense to me. He then sends me another message. This was the one that made me get up and leave immediately. He asks me if I can spend the night and we will have fun together. WHATTTT???!!!!!! I didnt even respond to the message and I got up out of seat, got in my car and drove home. I had just given him my number as before I wouldnt give it to him and he texted me on my phone that I finally gave him my number and it had that kiss smiley with it. I immediately blocked the number. GROSS!!! I am upset, tired, and feeling like I wasted my time and money. Grrrrrrrr. That was a 45 minute drive one-way.

I think I have a headache. I need to get something.

There goes my good paying job. Oh well.
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  1. LP's Avatar
    Wow! That escalated quick scary
    I hope you find a good job soon
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    Updated Aug 10th, 2017 at 12:19 AM by LP
  2. Bobby1's Avatar
    You should report him or he will do it to someone else...
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  3. aqua70's Avatar
    Sorry this happened to you Munni. Ugh some men are just disgusting pigs. Hope you are feeling better now.
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  4. LP's Avatar
    Quote Originally Posted by Bobby1
    You should report him or he will do it to someone else...
    I agree with Bobby.
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  5. Munni's Avatar
    Thanks for the comments.

    aqua, I am sorry you had to deal with that. Ugh. I am okay, just disappointed. Thanks.

    I cannot report him because for one I dont even know his full name and two, we met at the cafeteria of a big building. He wanted to eat dinner the first day and did his reading/work at the cafe and today I guess I might have found out which office was his (if any) but I left due to his comment so I was waiting in the cafeteria for him.
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  6. Mystique's Avatar
    I responded to your blog yesterday but your entry was taken off before I posted my reply.

    The whole incident is suspicious from the beginning. I would never show up for an interview if I did not know that company & owners's name, have looked up their website, the products & services they provide, the nature of biz & as much info as possible. Here you ended up joining. This was expected. In Pakistan, people running phony companies and provide phony identities to only have a girl agree to show up for interviews. What happens after only God knows. Some such people are linked with secret prostitution biz locally. I dont know where you are but it should teach you a lesson to research well about the company and owners/management before turning up for an interview.
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  7. Munni's Avatar
    Quote Originally Posted by Mystique
    I responded to your blog yesterday but your entry was taken off before I posted my reply.

    The whole incident is suspicious from the beginning. I would never show up for an interview if I did not know that company & owners's name, have looked up their website, the products & services they provide, the nature of biz & as much info as possible. Here you ended up joining. This was expected. In Pakistan, people running phony companies and provide phony identities to only have a girl agree to show up for interviews. What happens after only God knows. Some such people are linked with secret prostitution biz locally. I dont know where you are but it should teach you a lesson to research well about the company and owners/management before turning up for an interview.
    Im in the United States. He did mention which hospital he was consulting with but I forgot the name. I should have gotten his full name, that is for sure.
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  8. NaanGuard's Avatar
    well...I called it..sexual harassment.....

    So time to lay some of that IT knowledge bomb on you.... you can research his name with his number, type it into google and see what it brings up. There are usually databases associated with cell phone numbers online and the last name associated with them and the general location/provider of the number. Or you can do a reverse search on his number as well. Another thing you can do is add his phone number as a contact, and instagram/facebook/snap has a find contacts feature..so if he linked his phone number to his Instagram or Facebook account that is another way to get his name.

    But I feel it might be too much work to spend on someone who doesn't really deserve a second thought.


    Up to you though...
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  9. Shareefbacha95's Avatar
    Wth this sounds very creepy. What kinda guy needs to pay a girl just to talk to him?!
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  10. Le Pakistan's Avatar
    No offence, munni, but what else exactly did you expect? It was pretty obvious, no?
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  11. Munni's Avatar
    Quote Originally Posted by Le Pakistan
    No offence, munni, but what else exactly did you expect? It was pretty obvious, no?
    No it was not obvious to me. My inkling was that perhaps he was seeking a wife and I did not think that someone who is seriously looking for a wife will ask someone to spend the night with them.
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  12. Sara516's Avatar
    Why is every single guy you come across trying to date or marry or get with you?
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