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During initial days of my clinical experience had this sanwali, saloni si, girl working with me. She wasn't the pretty type, had some grey hair even then, but had kind of an attraction, on top of that her cute smile, mild manners, soft voice and sincerity, drew me to her. We would meet for lunch, tea or after morning reports. Whenever, I will start to give her more attention, she would withdraw. I would in return, think she doesn't want this to go anywhere, so I would give her some space. But when I would ghost a bit, she would start coming over or calling for tea, or lunch. These cycles went on for sometime, and we both moved to different places.
Couple of years ago, we got connected on FB, like many old colleagues and classmates. She is still single, and I know that she has been looking. She has put on some weight. She never posts her pictures and remains usually aloof. Whenever, I see her post or greeting etc, I get an urge to propose her, or to find her a great partner. But then I remember that she does not need my sympathy. Anyone who becomes the spouse of such a kind and considerate person is sure going to be a lucky man.
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  1. third string's Avatar
    Was she unattractive cause of her complexion?
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  2. aqua70's Avatar
    Propose her? I thought you were married.
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  3. Bobby1's Avatar
    Quote Originally Posted by aqua70
    Propose her? I thought you were married.
    Many think they are allowed upto 4 wives and hence always on the prowl. It truly is awesome to be a woman there.
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  4. aahmed's Avatar
    Bruh, you should totally "propose her", women find it charming when a guy goes from zero to proposal with nothing in the middle. I would also lead the proposal with pointing out her flaws, girls like honest guys.
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  5. Tahurra's Avatar
    Feel like reading nimrah ahmed's novel
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  6. redvelvet's Avatar
    You want to propose to her? If you're married, aisi baatain mat karo. If your wife said the same thing, you wouldn't like it either. Just help her find a good rishta instead...and not out of sympathy. Nobody should even be proposed to out of sympathy/ pity.
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  7. Iconoclast's Avatar
    Quote Originally Posted by Bobby1
    Many think they are allowed upto 4 wives and hence always on the prowl. It truly is awesome to be a woman there.
    Isnít that great!
    Ask the guppans, 14 years of perversion and counting.
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  8. Bobby1's Avatar
    Quote Originally Posted by Iconoclast
    Isnít that great!
    Ask the guppans, 14 years of perversion and counting.
    So you have a wife and children and you are perving on other women and you claim moral superiority.
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  9. Iconoclast's Avatar
    Quote Originally Posted by aahmed
    Bruh, you should totally "propose her", women find it charming when a guy goes from zero to proposal with nothing in the middle. I would also lead the proposal with pointing out her flaws, girls like honest guys.
    Best comment, loved it as always.
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  10. Iconoclast's Avatar
    Quote Originally Posted by third string
    Was she unattractive cause of her complexion?
    I donít think I mentioned her to be unattractive. Forgot to mention she was a 2 years my senior as well.
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  11. Iconoclast's Avatar
    Quote Originally Posted by redvelvet
    You want to propose to her? If you're married, aisi baatain mat karo. If your wife said the same thing, you wouldn't like it either. Just help her find a good rishta instead...and not out of sympathy. Nobody should even be proposed to out of sympathy/ pity.
    Who can control the thoughts red, itís only the actions that matter.
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  12. Iconoclast's Avatar
    Quote Originally Posted by Bobby1
    So you have a wife and children and you are perving on other women and you claim moral superiority.
    Claims and moral superiority, both are your domains, hands down. Only superiority I am positive about is my knowledge of science over yours. 😉
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  13. redvelvet's Avatar
    Quote Originally Posted by Bobby1
    So you have a wife and children and you are perving on other women and you claim moral superiority.
    You oggle the "goddesses" that come out of the gym, you harp on and on and on and on about Dianne.....you make racist remarks...you're the only one here that claims to be superior to everyone else in every way
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  14. Bobby1's Avatar
    Quote Originally Posted by redvelvet
    You oggle the "goddesses" that come out of the gym, you harp on and on and on and on about Dianne.....you make racist remarks...you're the only one here that claims to be superior to everyone else in every way
    Dianne was my ex I was with her for seven years. Decent men and women can admire fitness and good looks without a thought of cheating. I would never in a million years, not for all the gold on the planet and also not for the most beautiful woman on the planet betray the trust of my family. The love and respect in their eyes is worth more to me than the entire universe.
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  15. Bobby1's Avatar
    Quote Originally Posted by Iconoclast
    Claims and moral superiority, both are your domains, hands down. Only superiority I am positive about is my knowledge of science over yours. 😉
    Honestly, nothing is worth losing the respect and love of the children so don't do it. You will ruin yours and several other lives.
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  16. NavAhmed's Avatar
    I thought people marry out of love. Don't they? or am I missing something here?
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  17. Iconoclast's Avatar
    I think many of you missed the word ďurgeĒ. I have no plans, to.
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  18. Iconoclast's Avatar
    Quote Originally Posted by Bobby1
    Honestly, nothing is worth losing the respect and love of the children so don't do it. You will ruin yours and several other lives.
    جان تو اپنی ہے، آبرو ہے نسلوں کی کمائی
    کون بچاتا پھرے سر کو دستار کیلئے

    پروین شاکر

    Just saying.
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  19. Iconoclast's Avatar
    Quote Originally Posted by NavAhmed
    I thought people marry out of love. Don't they? or am I missing something here?
    People marry for a lot of different reasons.
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