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Lately I have found myself deleting several people's contacts from my phone. Although initially I didn't want to but it feels good to get rid of people who were there for me as long as I was happy and dandy. Giving me so many compliments and wanting to spend time with me but at the first sign of me going through a bit of troublesome phase, they just vanished. Good riddance! Alhumdulillah.
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  1. SID_NY's Avatar
    Aqua, the new Gubbar


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  2. redvelvet's Avatar
    Earlier this week a former best friend from high school texted me and said she's in town and wanted to meet up. She was my best friend in high school and a few years after that. We were pretty close, but a few things about her bugged me. Things like occasional snide remarks...hiding/lying about inane things. I'd ask her where she got her eyebrows done....she wouldn't tell me. She knew I wanted to get my nose pierced and I asked where she got hers done from and she lied about the location...ended up wasting my time. We drifted apart over the years, but whenever she would visit she'd ask to meet up....and I would agree. Despite the weird things she did in the past...I'd still agree to hang out ...because we still had some memories as well. But oddly...this time my heart just wasn't into talking to her, nor meeting up with her. So, I did not respond to either her texts or phone calls. Sometimes I wonder if my decision was based on intuition. Maybe at some point in the future, we might meet....but as of now...I'm not in that place.
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  3. NavAhmed's Avatar
    Your friend or even your best friend does not have to be on their perfect behavior with you all the time. We all have our own flaws and who knows, they may have something negative to point at us, and it does not even have to be specified as some issues are intrinsic and personality-related, fretting about which will first will not fix things, and second can make things worse for the overall friendship.

    Not all companions are friends.
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  4. third string's Avatar
    Once i removed this narcissistic girl from all my social media and then she had a panic attack, i knew she was gonna react that way.
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  5. FreshBakedPi's Avatar
    Quote Originally Posted by third string
    Once i removed this narcissistic girl from all my social media and then she had a panic attack, i knew she was gonna react that way.
    Where on earth do you meet all these strange girls??




    @aqua70.... it's always hard to lose a friend but you'll make many more over your lifetime! No room for toxic people here!
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  6. third string's Avatar
    Quote Originally Posted by FreshBakedPi
    Where on earth do you meet all these strange girls??




    @aqua70.... it's always hard to lose a friend but you'll make many more over your lifetime! No room for toxic people here!
    College lol, she was pretty normal for the most part.
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  7. redvelvet's Avatar
    I don't think Aqua is sad though, lol. Thus the smiling emoji at the end of her post. Sometimes letting go brings peace of mind. It can be liberating.
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  8. NavAhmed's Avatar
    Quote Originally Posted by redvelvet
    I don't think Aqua is sad though, lol. Thus the smiling emoji at the end of her post. Sometimes letting go brings peace of mind. It can be liberating.
    Everything happens for a reason.

    And we may not know till later....
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  9. NavAhmed's Avatar
    Quote Originally Posted by FreshBakedPi
    Where on earth do you meet all these strange girls??
    may be GS?
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  10. LP's Avatar
    Quote Originally Posted by NavAhmed
    may be GS?
    There's a bigger world out there
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  11. FreshBakedPi's Avatar
    Quote Originally Posted by NavAhmed
    may be GS?
    You are so unbelievably rotten! lol
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  12. FreshBakedPi's Avatar
    Munni and aqua are morphing into the same person in my brain or something.. LOL! I must have been thinking of Munni's post when I posted my comment. Both have had friendships end recently. This is what lack of sleep will do to ya.
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  13. third string's Avatar
    Quote Originally Posted by FreshBakedPi
    Munni and aqua are morphing into the same person in my brain or something.. LOL! I must have been thinking of Munni's post when I posted my comment. Both have had friendships end recently. This is what lack of sleep will do to ya.
    Nah that's what ganja does too you
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  14. third string's Avatar
    Quote Originally Posted by NavAhmed
    may be GS?
    Nah fam, there's a real world out there.
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  15. NavAhmed's Avatar
    Quote Originally Posted by third string
    Nah fam, there's a real world out there.
    Sure.

    So does satire, if you get it.
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  16. FreshBakedPi's Avatar
    Quote Originally Posted by third string
    Nah that's what ganja does too you
    That would be Bobby1's area of expertise not mine!
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  17. aqua70's Avatar
    @SID_NY Is Gubbar a movie character? I didn't really get the meme.

    @redvelvet when you have friends like that, who needs enemies? Seems like she had a lot of insecurity issues.

    @NavAhmed I didn't just delete their number after 1 incident, these are the people I have given plenty of chances to. Same routine over and over again, they would talk to me when I was happy and despite me always being there for them when they were feeling down, they were like strangers to me when I felt down. Suddenly they had no time for me. I just can't deal with such aholey people anymore.

    @FreshBakedPi Yes! Getting rid of them is a blessing in disguise really.
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  18. SID_NY's Avatar
    You really need to see the classics.. you are way off
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  19. aqua70's Avatar
    Quote Originally Posted by SID_NY
    You really need to see the classics.. you are way off
    Kaunsi classics? Pakistani? Ab bata be dein, what was the reference?
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  20. NavAhmed's Avatar
    Quote Originally Posted by aqua70
    @NavAhmed I didn't just delete their number after 1 incident, these are the people I have given plenty of chances to. Same routine over and over again, they would talk to me when I was happy and despite me always being there for them when they were feeling down, they were like strangers to me when I felt down. Suddenly they had no time for me. I just can't deal with such aholey people anymore.
    You know when you are in dark, you even lose your own shadow. Hope you can find some good friends, those who come for all seasons.
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  21. NavAhmed's Avatar
    Quote Originally Posted by aqua70
    Kaunsi classics? Pakistani? Ab bata be dein, what was the reference?
    He means 'Sholay' famous Indian movie (actually a cheap desi version of the Japanese classic Seven Samurai)

    In fact any remake of Seven Samurai is a downgrade, including the iconic Hollywood take The Magnificent Seven
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  22. aqua70's Avatar
    Quote Originally Posted by NavAhmed
    You know when you are in dark, you even lose your own shadow. Hope you can find some good friends, those who come for all seasons.
    Why don't you submit an application? jk. Thank you and iA!
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  23. NavAhmed's Avatar
    Quote Originally Posted by aqua70
    Why don't you submit an application? jk. Thank you and iA!
    I thought I was already a friend you could rely on...
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  24. aqua70's Avatar
    Quote Originally Posted by NavAhmed
    He means 'Sholay' famous Indian movie (actually a cheap desi version of the Japanese classic Seven Samurai)

    In fact any remake of Seven Samurai is a downgrade, including the iconic Hollywood take The Magnificent Seven
    Ah well, I am one of those minority Pakistanis who don't have any knowledge of Indian movies. Thanks for explaining the reference.
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  25. FreshBakedPi's Avatar
    She was my friend first Doc... back off!
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  26. NavAhmed's Avatar
    Quote Originally Posted by aqua70
    Ah well, I am one of those minority Pakistanis that don't have knowledge of Indian movies. Thanks for explaining the reference.
    Neither do I, but Gabbar has gotton into urban dictionary now......
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  27. NavAhmed's Avatar
    Quote Originally Posted by FreshBakedPi
    She was my friend first Doc... back off!
    Your wish is my command Your Majesty
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  28. FreshBakedPi's Avatar
    Quote Originally Posted by NavAhmed
    Your wish is my command Your Majesty
    LOL!!!! I expect that clip posthaste!
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  29. aqua70's Avatar
    Quote Originally Posted by NavAhmed
    I thought I was already a friend you could rely on...
    You must be confusing yourself with @FreshBakedPi?
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  30. NavAhmed's Avatar
    Quote Originally Posted by FreshBakedPi
    LOL!!!! I expect that clip posthaste!
    I got a banana leaf as well
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