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      Quote Originally Posted by Le Pakistan View Post
      Plenty of people that I know who didn't give their daughters jahaiz. No severe consequences.
      The worse that will happen is that the rishta will end. Fine, who wants to marry their daughter to greedy people.

      I am aware in some cases it is easy to speak and things can become ugly, things aren't always that black and white. But in general, it is all up to you how you react to something. Things aren't always as difficult as we make them.
      I am married to the most beautiful, educated classy lady who was physically assaulted and threatened because her widowed mother was not able to fulfill the demands for more money. Her brother and bhabi had usurped all the wealth and left them with nothing. One offs don't matter in a vast majority of cases the dowry matters.

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      Quote Originally Posted by LP View Post
      thank you... they are now a happy couple alhamdulillah

      Quote Originally Posted by Bobby1 View Post
      When you live in a society and do not follow social norms there can be very severe consequences, I am sure you are aware of that.
      and those severe consequences are saas and nandon ke sari umar ke taanay...

      Quote Originally Posted by Le Pakistan View Post
      Plenty of people that I know who didn't give their daughters jahaiz. No severe consequences.
      The worse that will happen is that the rishta will end. Fine, who wants to marry their daughter to greedy people.

      I am aware in some cases it is easy to speak and things can become ugly, things aren't always that black and white. But in general, it is all up to you how you react to something. Things aren't always as difficult as we make them.
      you're at some extent right, but mostly people in Pakistan dont let it go easily, bechari larki ko taanay maar maar ker hi halaq ker dein ye log...

      Quote Originally Posted by Southie View Post
      Is Matata getting married? Will Chi. Matata henceforth be known as Sri Matata?

      Congratulations!
      lolzzz bachay ki jaan leingay kya ??

      thanks on the behalf of my friend, hehe

      Quote Originally Posted by Southie View Post
      This issue is not as simple as it seems on the surface. If you are lower middle class (or even middle class), jahaiz is a burden for the girls family. But for those who are rich, jahaiz ensures the girl gets her fair share of her family wealth.
      that's the right sketch

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      meanwhile at Hakuna's sasural


      https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wKhUPSeM3Zo
      zoobi doobi

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      Quote Originally Posted by LP View Post
      Because they become obliged to give due to the culture. They feel they aren't good parents if they don't give their daughter so n so. They even take loans to give jahaiz.

      Par choti baji thats why we yell at the emotions saying, "Oye control kar control"...

      Now if they say, "kya karen control nai hota", whose fault is this?

      You cant have everything at yr hand, can you?
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      Holier than thou..

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      Quote Originally Posted by Hakuna Matata View Post
      Sure, but inshaALLAH in ramzan
      ^ Reminder

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      Quote Originally Posted by LP View Post
      ^ Reminder
      sure, thanks for reminding, I'll try to share it today inshaALLAH

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      Quote Originally Posted by LP View Post
      ^ Reminder
      Hi LP, I am unable to find any verse on it, I thought it was in Surat-un-Nisa.. but it's not, so I called my Qari sahab, he told me that there isnt but there is a hadith with a bit different aspect.. So I'm really sorry, it's my mistake...

      P.S: All I found was a person can do wasiyat before dying..

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      Quote Originally Posted by Hakuna Matata View Post
      Hi LP, I am unable to find any verse on it, I thought it was in Surat-un-Nisa.. but it's not, so I called my Qari sahab, he told me that there isnt but there is a hadith with a bit different aspect.. So I'm really sorry, it's my mistake...

      P.S: All I found was a person can do wasiyat before dying..
      I'd never heard of it either that's why I wanted to confirm... Moreover wasiyat cannot be done to those who are eligible for inheritance.


      JazakAllahKhair for asking your qari

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      Quote Originally Posted by LP View Post
      I'd never heard of it either that's why I wanted to confirm... Moreover wasiyat cannot be done to those who are eligible for inheritance.


      JazakAllahKhair for asking your qari
      the pleasure is mine


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